The Kintsugi

Love Story

Marriage is the Unfinished Business of Childhood


This 3-day intensive healing couples retreat is designed to go deep into the subconscious patterns of your behaviors, understanding them through a lens of compassion and learning how to heal them with love and acceptance.


  • Overwhelmed by life and/or your relationship?
  • Easily triggered and reactive?
  • Showing up differently then you desire?
  • Struggling with accepting parts of yourself?
  • Struggling with accepting parts of your partner?
  • Tired of living a life that feels unfulfilled and draining?
  • Ready for more out of your life and relationship?


  • A deeper sense of awareness of yourself and your partner.
  • A more connected, intimate and safer reality.
  • Greater compassion for yourself and others.
  • Accepting all your parts and meeting them with compassion and understanding.
  • Learn tools to help regulate and co-regulate your emotions.
  • Living more aligned with your desired self.
  • Breaking free from the old beliefs and trauma patterns that were subconsciously controlling your life.
  • Loving yourself and your partner from a deeply connected place.


Join Us at The Kintsugi Couples Retreat. A 3-day immersive experience where you will receive educational workshops, hands on practices and somatic sessions that will give your marriage the transformation you are seeking. We provide the education, the beautiful accommodations and catered meals leaving you and your partner free to direct all of your energy towards deepening the relationship with yourselves, with each other and gifting your marriage with the healing that it needs.



This part of the retreat will cover what you need to know about relationship safety, roles, challenges, boundaries, and safe communication styles.  This part of the retreat will gift you with insightful informatin that will empower your own abilities to create the changes you desire.


Together we will deep dive into “your story”, your background, childhood and all the conditioning that brought you to this time and place. You will discover parts you might be aware of as well as parts your subconscious mind buried deeply to help you survive. Uncovering these parts of yourself will help you unveil your true self and open up the energy of connection to self and others. 


With guidance, love and safety you will be lead through varies different experiential practices that will allow you to reconnect to your lost parts and reclaim them. You will also experience deep connective exercises and experiences with yourself and your partner that will create a new and deeper foundation for your relationship.

Ongoing Support

You will receive a toolbox with exercises, empowerment, and continued healing strategies to take home and create permanent changes in your life and relationship.  The tools will take time to integrate and become a part of you, but once they are you will forever cherish them and live a new reality!

This retreat can be participated alone as a part of a continued container of three months of healing integration support with Pearl Flax.

Group Vs. VIP

Some people feel overwhelmed by the idea of opening themselves up to group work. However, being witnessed in a group setting with compassion, resonance and safety can be incredibly healing and validating. We also gain a tremendous amount by observing and supporting the work of other couples. Most people have attested that group work has changed their healing journey in a magical way.


This is a private intensive couple’s workshop, that is designed to go deep, and heal your connection, intimacy and life.

What modalities are included in the retreat?

  • A brain-based approach, education to help you understand human nature and conditioning from a much deeper perspective.
  • A somatic approach, to help embody the safety and language of your inborn knowing. We combine Somatic Experiences as well as Somatic Touch.
  • A variety of breathwork modalities that will help open up your blockages and slowly with safety help you integrate your suppressed traumas and unconscious programming.
  • Two beautiful relationship models to help create safety, trust and connection in your marriage.

Bonus Couples Massage

A couples massage at the house booked for you by us on any retreat night of your choosing.

On the other side of your
Kintsugi Love Story Retreat

You will have:

A very clear understanding of your own subconscious patterns as well as your own story.

A very clear understanding of your partner’s subconscious patterns as well as his story.

Learned powerful communication tools that will change the way you interact and feel toward one another.

Learned self-regulation techniques that will help you show up as your best self.

Go home inspired and filled with hope for what’s to come.

Disclosure: Understand that you will come face to face with deep subconscious wounds and that it will take time to process and integrate once you leave the retreat.


why Immersion

When we prioritize our personal growth and healing in an immersive experience, the results can be profound and life-changing. By focusing and investing 3 full days into your marriage your progress can build uninterrupted and will be compoundedParticipants and therapists alike believe the workshop delivers the equivalent of a year of psychotherapy.

Why This Retreat Works

This workshop incorporates three fundamental approaches to healing. The body, mind, and heart! For our brains to physically rewire and create new neuro-pathways, we need a top-down as well as a bottom-up approach. That is why we designed the program with a wide range of effective and proven healing strategies.


A Journey of Healing and Empowerment.

Step one: Apply, fill out the following application form.

Step two: We will review the application form as soon as possible and schedule a consult call to see if this program is a good fit for you.

Step three: If you have been approved for the retreat you will receive an enrollment form via email.

Note: This retreat is now held both in a Group setting as well as a private VIP experience. It is for the couple who wants to deepen their relationship and connection and is READY to dive in and do the deep work needed. What you will learn, experience, and integrate, will not only transform your marriage but transform all relationships and connections in your life. It will completely change life as you knew it till now.

What is included: Beautiful Lodging accommodations in a private house, breakfast, lunch & dinner is included.

Bonus: Couples massage booked and arranged for you. The retreat consists of three full days of immersive therapeutic integration work. You will get a complete welcome package upon arrival.

Dietary restrictions: Once you are approved for the retreat you will be receiving a menu selection for breakfast and lunch to fill out. If you have any special dietary needs please fill it out clearly. 

Price: The Group retreat $4444 per couple

A $500 nonrefundable deposit is required at the time of registration. Payment must be submitted 3 weeks prior to the retreat. 

Cancellation Policy: I understand that life happens and sometimes we need to change our plans you may back out of your spot of the retreat up to 3 weeks in advance with no cost other than your deposit.  If you cancel within 3 weeks of the retreat you will be refunded 50% of your cost.  If you cancel within 1 week of the retreat start date, there are no refunds.

If you have been referred by another professional, we would appreciate the opportunity to speak with them prior to your registration for the retreat so that we may make sure that this is the right opportunity at this time for you and your partner.

Once registered, you will have access to an information packet that explains your next steps, what you can expect at the retreat, and answer any questions you may have.

Date: The date of your Private VIP retreat will be set up once you fill out the required application form and are approved. We will schedule a date that works for both of you and accommodates your lifestyle and personal needs. 

Date for next Group Retreat: July 28-30, 2024

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us at:


Who is this retreat for?

This workshop is for the couple who is ready to take a deep dive into their story. You might be at wit’s end or confused about how you feel, or you might want to deepen your connection. The key is that you are committed and ready to do the work.

What if we are unsure if we are ready for the retreat?

There is an application form that is mandatory to be filled out. Once you fill out the form you will get an email to set up a clarity call that will help you make the right decision at this time. You will find the application form in the section above (how to register).

Why is the retreat called Kintsugi?

The story behind the inspiration of the name will be shared at the retreat, since it is deeply personal.

Kintsugi is a Japanese art concept in which a broken bowl is filled and fixed with a material that is gold filled glue. Repairing a broken plate or bowl with golden filling makes the piece more beautiful and is a way of showing that the piece has a valuable history.

The same also happens with our hearts. When hurt, our hearts get broken and fragmented into pieces representing our emotional wounds.  The intention of this workshop is to reclaim our broken parts and re-build a beautiful vessel taking our pain and transforming it into a new yet more beautiful reality you ever thought possible.

What can we expect as a result of this retreat?

  • You will have a very clear understanding of your own subconscious patterns as well as your own story.
  • You will have a very clear understanding of your partner’s subconscious patterns as well as his story.
  • You will learn powerful communication tools that will change the way you interact and feel toward one another.
  • You will learn self-regulation techniques that will help you show up as your best self.
  • You will go home inspired and filled with hope for what’s to come.

Disclosure: Understand that you will come face to face with deep subconscious wounds and that it will take time to process and integrate once you leave the workshop.

Is it possible to go home after each day during the retreat?

We strongly advise you not to. The immersion happens when we disconnect from all other responsibilities and dedicate our full attention to the commitment of the work. Your marriage deserves three full days away from everything!

I have traveled a long personal journey; it was certainly not the smoothest sailing by far. Yet in spite of all the storms I encountered the greatest part of the journey happened when I was brave enough to face all of my subconscious beliefs and challenge myself beyond my programming, beyond my traumas, and beyond my fears. It’s what brought this program and retreat to life.

It is my dream,

my passion,

and mission

to gift this freedom, joy and love onto others.



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