The Kintsugi

Love Story

Marriage is the Unfinished Business of Childhood


This 3-day intensive workshop is designed to go deep into the subconscious patterns of your behaviors, understanding them through a lens of compassion and learning how to heal them with love and acceptance.


Are you overwhelmed by life and/or your relationship?

Are you easily triggered and reactive?

Are you showing up differently then you desire?

Are you struggling with accepting parts of yourself?

Are you struggling with accepting parts of your partner?

Are you tired of living a life that feels unfulfilled and draining?

Are you ready for more out of your life and relationship?


A deeper sense of awareness of yourself and your partner

A more connected, intimate and safer reality

Greater compassion for yourself and others

Accepting all your parts and meeting them with compassion and understanding

Learn tools to help regulate and co-regulate your emotions

Living more aligned with your desired self

Breaking free from the old beliefs and trauma patterns that were subconsciously controlling your life.

Loving yourself and your partner from a deeply connected place


A deeper sense of awareness of yourself and your partner

A more connected, intimate and safer reality

Greater compassion for yourself and others

Accepting all your parts and meeting them with compassion and understanding

Learn tools to help regulate and co-regulate your emotions

Living more aligned with your desired self

Breaking free from the old beliefs and trauma patterns that were subconsciously controlling your life.

Loving yourself and your partner from a deeply connected place


the Educational Parts

This part will cover what you need to know about relationship safety, roles, challenges, boundaries and safe communication styles.  This part of the workshop will gift you with a lot of educational and insightful information that will empower your own abilities to create the changes you desire.

the Clarifying Parts

This part consists of a deep dive into “your story”, your background, childhood and all the conditioning that brought you to this time and place. You will discover parts you might be aware of as well as parts your subconscious mind buried deeply to help you survive. Uncovering these parts of yourself will help you unveil your true self and open up the energy of connection to self and others. 

the Experiential Parts

With guidance, love and safety you will be lead through varies different experiential practices that will allow you to reconnect to your lost parts and reclaim them. You will also experience deep connective exercises and experiences with yourself and your partner that will create a new and deeper foundation for your relationship.

Ongoing Support

You will receive a toolbox filled with exercises, empowerment and continued healing strategies to take home and create permanent changes in your life and relationship.  The tools will take time to integrate and become a part of you, but once they are you will forever cherish them and live a new reality! 

This workshop can be participated alone as a part of a continued container of three months healing integration support with Pearl Flax.  Details will be discussed during your intake review and admission process.

Why This Workshop Works

This workshop incorporates three fundamental approaches to healing. The body, mind and heart! In order for our brains to physically rewire and create new neuro pathways, we need a top down as well as a bottom-up approach. That is why we designed the program with a wide range of effective and proven healing strategies.

why Immersion

When we prioritize our personal growth and healing in an immersive experience, the results can be profound and lifechanging. By focusing and investing 3 full days into your marriage your progress can build uninterrupted and will be compounded.  Participants and therapists alike, believe the workshop delivers the equivalent of a year of psychotherapy.

Group vs Private

Some people feel overwhelmed by the idea of opening themselves up to a group work. However, being witnessed in a group setting with compassion, resonance and safety can be incredibly healing and validating. We also gain a tremendous amount by observing and supporting the work of other couples. Most people have attested that group work has changed their healing journey in a magical way.

private v.i.p.

We do however honor and respect the desire for privacy and if group work is not something that feels right for you at this time, please reach out to inquire about the V.I.P Private Workshop.


Step one: Please fill out the following application form

Step two: We will review your application and get back to you as soon as possible. If you have been approved for the upcoming workshop you will receive a registration application form with further details.

Workshop Cost: $3500 per couple. 

Note: The workshop is limited to MAX 4 couples. If we are unable to enroll you for this upcoming workshop let us know if are willing to wait so we can add you to our waitlist.

What is included: Beautiful Lodging accommodations in a private house, breakfast & lunch is included. Dinner will be an intimate date at any local restaurant (not covered by workshop). We will be happy to make reservations for you and help accommodate any special requests. The workshop consists of three full days of immersive therapeutic integration work. You will get a complete welcome package upon arrival.

Due to the small group size a $500 nonrefundable deposit is required at time of registration. The balance is due two (2) weeks prior to the workshop. In the event of cancellation, the workshop tuition will be refunded in full (less a $100 administration fee) only if we can find someone to take your place.

If you have been referred by another professional, we would appreciate the opportunity to speak with them prior to your registration for the workshop so that we may make sure that this is the right opportunity at this time for you and your partner.

Once registered, you will have access to an information packet that explains your next step, what you can expect at the workshop and answer any questions you may have.

If you have any questions, please feel free to contact us at:


Who is this workshop for?

This workshop is for the couple who is ready to take a deep dive into their story. You might be at wits end or confused about how you feel, or you might want to deepen your connection. The key is that you are committed and ready to do the work.

What if we are unsure if we are ready for the workshop?

There is an application form that is mandatory to be filled out. Once you fill out the form you will get an email to set up a clarity call that will help you make the right decision at this time. You will find the application form in the section above (how to register).

What modalities are included in the workshop?

  • A brain-based approach, education to help you understand human nature and conditioning from a much deeper perspective.
  • A somatic approach, to help embody the safety and language of your inborn knowing. We combine Somatic Experiences as well as Somatic Touch.
  • A variety of breathwork modalities that will help open up your blockages and slowly with safety help you integrate your suppressed traumas and unconscious programming.
  • Two beautiful relationship models to help create safety, trust and connection in your marriage.

What if I don’t feel comfortable with a group setting?

It is totally normal to have resistance around group work. It’s hard to be vulnerable and open up to our spouses let alone strangers. That being said, you can be reassured that all exercises that need to be private will only happen between you and your spouse. There is absolutely no pressure or expectation to share in the group what doesn’t feel safe or comfortable.  The benefits of group work, however, are life changing and transformative. In a group we are better able to learn by watching others integrate work and witnessing that we are all very much alike, with the same needs and fears. That container opens a beautiful sacred healing space that is incomparable to individual therapy sessions.

Why is the workshop called Kintsugi?

The story behind the inspiration of the name will be shared at the workshop, since it is deeply personal.

Kintsugi is a Japanese art concept in which a broken bowl is filled and fixed with a material that is gold filled glue. Repairing a broken plate or bowl with golden filling makes the piece more beautiful and is a way of showing that the piece has a valuable history.

The same also happens with our hearts. When hurt, our hearts get broken and fragmented into pieces representing our emotional wounds.  The intention of this workshop is to reclaim our broken parts and re-build a beautiful vessel taking our pain and transforming it into a new yet more beautiful reality you ever thought possible.  

What can we expect as a result of this workshop:?

  • You will have a very clear understanding of your own subconscious patterns as well as your own story.
  • You will have a very clear understanding of your partners subconscious patterns as well as his story.
  • You will learn powerful communication tools that will change the way you interact and feel towards one another.
  • You will learn self-regulation techniques that will help you show up as your best self.
  • You will go home inspired and filled with hope for what’s to come. 

Disclosure: that being said understand that you will come face to face with deep subconscious wounds and that it will take time to process and integrate once you leave the workshop.

Is it possible to go home after each day during the workshop?

We strongly advise not to. The immersion happens when we disconnect from all other responsibilities and dedicate our full attention to the commitment of the work. Your marriage deserves three full days away from everything!

What happens after the workshop?

We offer the following options:

  • If you signed up to join the workshop without any additional support, we will create a monthly support circle for 6 months post the workshop with all participants. Joining is optional.
  • If you are an existing client with Pearl, you will have a post-workshop session to discuss your go forward treatment approach.
  • If you are interested in 1:1 sessions with Pearl, we will add you to her waitlist and discuss with you what the current options are. If waiting is not an option Pearl will find a suitable professional to help you on your continued healing and light journey.


If you still have questions, please feel free to reach out to or

I have traveled a long personal journey; it was certainly not the smoothest sailing by far. Yet in-spite of all the storms I encountered the greatest part of the journey happened when I was brave enough to face all of my subconscious beliefs and challenge myself beyond my programming, beyond my traumas, beyond my fears. It’s what brought this program and workshop to life.

It is my dream,

my passion,

and mission

to gift this freedom, joy and love onto others.