Understanding, Compassion, Acceptance, Love and Safety
Hello & Welcome
Reaching out for support is hard, yet here you are!
Something tells me that you have been struggling lately, perhaps with some unresolved anxiety, stresses and maybe or most likely unresolved childhood wounds. Our adult relationships often trigger our unhealed childhood wounds, most of which we are unaware of. You feel worn out and frustrated and can’t seem to find the inner joy and peace you had dreamed of.
Undoubtably, you feel and know that there must be more to life! Perhaps your marriage has turned out to be very different from what you had hoped for and dreamed of. You’re probably yearning for a more meaningful and safe connection yet don’t know how to achieve that dream.
It is exactly at this time in your life that the healing can begin, so I welcome you to a space of hope, healing and safety.
I am a trained experienced trauma relationship counselor & healer committed to working with people who seek to heal and change their lives. No matter where you are in life, healing is always possible. As a trained coach and therapist, I pride myself in combining multiple healing modalities that include mind, body and soul that provide true life changing results for my clients. My healing approach was created through years of experience and training that have taught me that there is one thing I know with certainty …
HEALING IS NOT ONLY POSSIBLE BUT INDEED LIFE CHANGING!
“IN THE MIDST OF WINTER I FOUND THERE WAS, WITHIN ME, AN INVINCIBLE SUMMER.”
– ALBERT CAMUS
CHILDHOOD & RELATIONAL TRAUMA
ANXIETY & DEPRESSION
ADDICTION & PAIN
I provide individual and relationship therapy to adults and couples. My specific areas of focus include childhood trauma, relationship codependency and perfectionism.
What They Say
“I would like to thank Pearl for opening my eyes too see things in a different way. To look at myself at how I can look and understand people for who they are and why they do things. Her experience and knowledge have enriched my life and I think she is a great coach that can help improve anyone’s life !!!!”
– Rebecca W.
Pearl teaches me how to teach myself which is a skill I benefit from every waking hour. If you are … Continue reading
– Sarah A.
“Just when I thought I couldn’t see any light at the end of this dark tunnel of divorce I met Pearl ,She saved me! encourage me to stay strong and stood by my side checking in on a daily basis! All her work is done from experience and the goodness of her heart. I felt like I was talking to a best friend through every session. I’m so grateful to have had Pearl Flax, guide me through this lonnngggg and difficult journey!! Would definitely recommend her!!”
– Anna F.
“If I had to use one word to describe Pearl, it would be “dedication”. She has been absolutely incredible with helping me understand, control, and reduce my anxiety, and has made herself available to me even outside the scheduled sessions. She has pointed issues with decisions I was making, and helped me understand how to view life more positively and becoming more solution-oriented. Overall, I highly recommend her to anyone that needs a Life Coach…and even those that don’t know that they need it.”
– Ace K.
“Over the past year Pearl has been coaching me through my difficult challenges . She has been remarkably supportive, gentle and compassionate yet skillfully adept at helping me focus on what is really important to me, what stands in my way and what next steps I want and need to take to accomplish my goals. She is incredibly patient, a great listener, never judges, provide actionable insight and most importantly she genuinely cares. I feel lucky to have her and would recommend her to anyone seeking support or growth!”
– Rebecca F.
“I knew I was not strong enough to get through my divorce without some help, I looked online for a divorce counselor and found Pearl. I got so lucky finding Pearl. She has not only helped me through the divorce but more importantly, she has helped me figure out why I got myself into a bad marriage in the first place. She is an amazing, knowledgeable divorce counselor and also an incomparable life coach and therapist … Continue reading
“I’m not a writer per se, and have never written a testimonial before, but I felt I really wanted to write one for Pearl as a way of expressing my gratitude. Sometimes in life you simply lose direction, you find your self in a position that you wouldn’t expect to be in your wildest dream, and that’s what happened to me, my blissful life with my husband, my happiness my security, my love my safety and trust , was all taken away from me, suddenly almost without warning, I went from being a happily married wife, to a woman facing an ugly divorce! I am a fighter I don’t … Continue reading
– Rivka W.
“Working with Pearl Flax has been a true answer to our prayers. We were looking for a therapist/coach who was real and able to solve the problems we were having, and not just drag things along. What we love about her is her ability to get to the root of the problem quickly by picking up nuances in the words we were saying with amazing clarity! She’s a real life person who uses her life experiences to help others in similar situations. We never felt that she was siding with one person over the other, and treated us both fairly and equally! We highly recommend her!!!!!!!”
– Tanya K.
“Ever feel like you’re living in a state of chaos where everyone and everything is pulling you in a million directions? You feel tired, exhausted and unfulfilled. You start to question your purpose. The personal battle I was experiencing was taking over my life, affecting my decisions, crushing my mood and my confidence was shot. During this moment in time, I became obsessed looking for answers to fix myself. But how do you know what to fix? I was on an incessant search without answers … Continue reading
– Jennifer L.
I had many many dark days, many hopeless weeks, and many times when I could not see how I would make it through one more day.
YET SOMEHOW I MADE IT THROUGH. AND SO WILL YOU.
This is the inspiration behind the life-changing work I do with my clients.
I INVITE YOU TO A SAFE PLACE THAT WILL ALLOW FOR YOU TO UNPACK YOUR JOURNEY AND RENEGOTIATE YOUR EXPERIENCES WITH COMPASSION AND UNDERSTANDING!